Friday, October 25, 2013

Double Giveaway #15

Yes, it’s another double giveaway.

Are you loving them as much as me?

One of today’s giveaways is hosted by my dear friend, Jen.

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Jen and I met while we were both living in San Diego.

We actually both moved there the same week and instantly became friends.

We lived only a block away from each other which was very convenient living in a busy city.

It was extremely hard to move away from her.

She is that person that is always there for me.

She was the first person to know about my divorce and the first friend to meet Jared.

She surprised me and flew into town for my wedding and made sure she was there for Ruby’s funeral.

This girl is my rock.

Even though we live far apart we make it a point to have a girl’s weekend at least once a year.

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{Girl’s trip April 2011, pregnant with Ruby}

She is still living in San Diego with her husband and four children (under 5 years old).

She has an adorable set of twins who were born on Ruby’s first birthday.

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Here is what she has to say:

I've been having an inner dialogue for weeks about what I could possible say about Kristin, Jared, and Ruby that would adequately describe how dear they are to me.  Although it was only 8.5 years ago that I met Kristin, it feels like we've been sisters for a lifetime.  She is so dear to me.  She has seen me through personal difficulties and empathized with my struggles when she herself quietly battled her own heartache. I remember when she moved from our neighborhood in San Diego to one just a half hour away, I cried like a baby.  You can't imagine how I felt when she moved to Utah (and then Vegas, and back to Utah)!

When Kristin introduced me to Jared (very early in the dating game), I was so impressed with his kind, genuine, demeanor.  He seemed to be matched so perfectly to Kristin.  Their stories have inspired me and continue to reaffirm my faith that God knows us, knows what we need, and knows how to provide us with the richest most rewarding lives if we can make it through some pretty confusing, crazy, and difficult experiences. 

Kristin and I were on a girl's trip when she told me she was pregnant with Ruby.  I squealed, I was so happy!  We both had wanted little babies for so long, so each pregnancy felt like a huge gift and miracle!  And Ruby has been just that, a gift and a miracle for so so many. At Ruby's funeral, Kristin and Jared asked those in attendance to write an act of service on a piece of paper that they would then carry out.  I knew immediately that my service needed to be to my children and  husband.  I had been taking them for granted and I needed to extend myself to them in a more loving, quiet, calm manner.  There have been countless moments in the last two years when thinking about Ruby has humbled me and reminded me to love my family as the Savior loves us.  As such, I would like those that enter this giveaway to serve a family member who needs a little bit more of your love right now.

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This wreath serves so many meanings for me.  It's circle is eternal as are our family bonds.  I've decorated it in fall colors to represent Ruby's Oct. 11th birthday and her mommy's LOVE for autumn (mine too)!  Last, but not least, the Ruby red rosettes and red tinted feathers are for our sweet delicate Ruby's name.  HAPPY BIRTHDAY, RUBY!!!

I love you, Kristin,

Jen

She is so wonderful (and gorgeous).

Everyone needs a Jen in their life.

Leave a comment with what you did to serve a family member.

Winner will be announced October 30th.

Good Luck and be sure to scroll down to the next giveaway.

19 comments:

  1. Very cute! My daughters car broke down last night and her daughter needed a ride home from Piano. When my daughter called and asked if I could go pick her up, I immediately thought how wonderful it is that I live so close to help my children and grandchildren out when needed. I am very lucky!!

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  2. My oldest son has been acting out a bit lately so instead of getting mad, when Daddy got home I told him that this son and I needed to have some special one on one time. I let him pick a few activities and then took him out for ice cream just me and him. It was nice to see him so happy and to focus on the special qualities and personality that he has. Sometimes with your whole family around it's hard to spend that special time one-on-one, but I saw how important it was and will continue to be. I look forward to making it a new tradition to do with each of my boys.

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  3. My younger brother and his wife have been out of a job for a few months, and they have two small daughters to feed. So the last time I went to the grocery store, I bought extra of a bunch of things to leave on their doorstep anonymously.
    Melissa Arakaki

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  4. Jen. Beautiful wreath. I am so glad you and Kristin have had each other over the last 8 years.

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  5. Jen. Beautiful wreath. I am so glad you and Kristin have had each other over the last 8 years.

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  6. I wish blogger had a like button for comments. :) I love reading what everyone is doing.

    In the later part of my pregnancy and now postpartum, I haven't been the most loving wife. I'm so exhausted physically and emotionally that I feel like I can only do what's necessary. So I need to turn that around. My entry for this giveaway is to be a more loving wife to an amazing husband.

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  7. For my entry, I made my daughter's halloween costume. I know this is kind-of just part of motherhood, but this was serious service for me because I don't sew or do things that are super crafty. She had her heart set on it, so I gave in ;)

    Elise Ford

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  8. This wreath is gorgeous. Instead of sharing a service I have done, I want to share what someone else did for my mom. She recently lost her lifelong best friend who happens to be a dog. It was heartbreaking for the whole family. A lady that has painted her home dropped by a beautiful keepsake watch with Schokis picture. This amazed me because it was not a relative nor a super close friend but someone who has done work for her. It just amazes me the love and compassion some people have and I'm in wonder where it comes from?

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  9. My daughter and her friend wanted to host a Halloween party so they made invitations, for 22 people and planned some games....so when I got home from work they informed me of their plans. I am so not a party planner especially for 22 kids! But we just moved into this neighborhood a few months ago and so I thought this would be a good way for them to meet kids. Tonight we will have a house full of kids for 3 hours playing games, eating pizza and bring rowdy! We have had a fun time planning it and getting everything together.

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  10. My dad was out of towm and I decided to make my mom dinner because she doesnt cook. :) I lovr cooking and I love being with my family.
    Angela marshall

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  11. I lovr this wreath! I have been on the recueving end of service this week with my baby in the hospital but once we get it b of here I plan to spend extra quality time with my kiddos at home and pay it forward to thank all of those have helped us!

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  12. I recently bought the house I grew up in. Their is a cute old couple that live a few houses away from mine that while growing up I thought they were my real grandparents. "Grandma" is on her death bed and her husband takes care of her. I took a plate of food over for him a couple weeks ago. (I'm sure it wasn't as good as what his wife used to cook him, but he seemed great full).
    Casey Ritter

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  13. Jen what a thoughtful beautiful giveaway! You have a beautiful family. So glad you and Kristin found each other. She sure cherishes your friendship!

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  14. Beautiful wreath and such sweet words from a kind friend. I really wanted to think of a big way to serve my family other than the normal everyday ways, so when my husband was walking home from work, I called and gave him the night off. Specifically, I told him he was banned from the house until after the kids were in bed and to go and enjoy a game of tennis, a long run or just a meal in peace. It was the best I could offer, but after a tough week I could tell he needed the extra break.

    jane

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  15. Beautiful wreath and an even greater story about the power of friendship and love. Recently, I flew on a business trip to Belgium where coincidentally my sister and her new husband just moved to with the Army. It is so serendipitous that my trip coincided with her move, and I was lucky enough to get there to help her unpack every box in her household and put everything just in its place. As a housewarming gift, I also bought them some furnishings from IKEA for their new home together, in a new place. It felt so good to be able to help my little 'sis in this new strange place at the right time, right place!

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  16. It's wonderful you two have found "your person" (for any Gray's Anatomy fans :)). The person who is there through it all. I have had some things happen to loved ones recently that is making me think more about how I serve those I love. I think I have too many blessings that I take for granted, and I'm really trying to make small changes to be more grateful and loving to those close to me. With my little boy, I'm trying to be more patient and kind, and to my husband better about showing my love and being supportive and happy. these are just a few things I'm working on, but I know it will make such a difference in our home and in their lives.

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  17. I love all the stories of love all the give aways have had. I am going to serve my husband and my kiddos, its been a little rough the past few weeks and most of that is because I haven't been feeling good so now that I'm feeling better I am going to be better about serving them and making the load for my husband a little lighter and have the joys of my kids just celebrated! Thank you for reminding me of the little things and how much they count!!

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  18. I try to serve my family everyday, but being a good example. I try to be supportive yet when I see something not quite right, I try in a loving way to help make it right. I love my family and I would do anything for them. Kathy Carling

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  19. It's so hard for me to think of ways that I serve my family. Everything always just seems so...routine/not service/part of my 'job', y'know? How about I didn't buy something that I wanted to buy? Does that count? Danny would say that it does. He seriously said the following words: "I have never been so proud of you." Really? For not buying something? Either a) He REALLY hates it when I spend money/we must be so broke b) he REALLY hated the item or c) I REALLY need to step it up in the wife/mother category if that is the thing that I should feel the most proud about! Ha. I know it doesn't seem like service, but I guess to Danny and our bank account, it was. If I win this giveaway, please choose someone else because I feel like that shouldn't count. I'll try to be more service-y this week.

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